Confused and hurt again....should be used to this by now.

So Bob has moved back to the house.... more for the dogs and himself than to be with me.  We talked about counseling and he said he would.... but then later he admitted it wasn't to get back together. So why bother. He said we would do something together on Sat.  we talked about going to the gun shop. Then when he got ready to go it was obvious he didn't want me too.  It hurts so bad that he doesn't want to be with me and that he can't be honest about how he feels. Just wants to take it one day at a time  and see what happens ...while she still occupies his brain and heart.